How to really land yourself a good man!

The Urban Panther has posted the final installment of the results of her survey based on Santagati's book, The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date, and Mate--and What Women Can Do to Come Out on Top.  Women were probably expecting to learn a trick or two on how to land themselves a man. Interestingly enough, based on the comments, what was actually learned from this exercise is that women generally go to way too much trouble to make themselves "marketable". Although physical appearance does have it's importance, it is second only to the air of confidence a woman can display. This is what most men are looking for. You may say "Oooh, but I really need a set of bigger boobs to boost my self esteem". Ladies, boobs come in all shapes and sizes from small, large, round, pointy, pear shaped, etc. And guess what? We men like them all! Of course, some men are still looking for that "trophy" wife. If this is the role you want to assume, then by all means go for that boob job and the Benjamin Moore make-up.

However, if a healthy and constructive relationship is what you're after then don't sweat it too much. Just follow these simple words of wisdom from a Frenchman:

Dress:

* avoid sweatshirts with pictures of wolves or deers,
* unless you're running, avoid sneakers. Even if they are pink, they are just not very feminine,
* leave the baseball caps to baseball players. Everybody can find a suitable hat; just ask the Panther!

Looks:

* stay healthy! If you smoke, quit! No one likes to lick an ashtray! and,
* keep fit. Being too thin is no better than being overweight. Most men like women with a 'little meat' on them. If you are not comfortable with your body then your self confidence will suffer, which is your biggest asset!

And, most importantly, splash on that brilliant smile of yours....come on, you know the one!  There are a lot of good men out there just waiting to see you smile. Give it a try... just Google "Hot French Quebec men."

And for a real life story, stay tuned tomorrow for:  How the Panther landed the Lion!

Comments

[Vered]

Generally I agree, but I have to say, that since I moved to California, I've been noticing a certain type that looks awesome with a baseball cap: the blond, long-haired, tan young girls that pull their hair into an effortless ponytail and tuck it into a baseball cap. I actually think they look cute!

[Urbane Lion]

I dunno Vered... from this male's perspective baseball caps (or those visors tennis players wear) just don't look feminine to me and just gives girls a boyish look I don't like. Of course... you wouldn't catch me dead in one of those gilry caps! ;-)

[Jeff Paul Internet Millions]

Thanks for posting such vital information. I am new to the blogging scene. Any and all pointers are helpful.